DominaPlanet: Anal Orgasm Training Manual

Introduction: This manual guides a female Dominant (“Domme”) through training a male submissive in achieving powerful prostate orgasms rather than relying on penis stimulation. It covers the why and how of prostate-focused training within a Femdom context, blending practical instruction with erotic narrative. Topics include the motivations behind such training, techniques (chastity, plugs, edging, pegging, etc.), real-life scenario examples (cuckolding, forced-bi, sissification), and safety. The tone is authoritative yet erotic and immersive, matching DominaPlanet’s style. All advice emphasizes consensual kink, hygiene, and care.

Why Prostate-Orgasms Over Penile-Only Orgasms?

Women Dominants often seek to re-channel male pleasure through the prostate for deeper power exchange. A prostate orgasm (“P-spot orgasm”) feels qualitatively different – often more intense and full-body – than a penis orgasm masterclass.comverywellhealth.com. By training a submissive to orgasm without using his cock, the Domme gains ultimate control over his sexual gratification and bodily urges. Penis stimulation is withheld or forbidden (usually via a chastity device), so the submissive’s only release comes from anal stimulation.

This shift in orgasm triggers serves multiple purposes: it emphasizes feminization and surrender, it reinforces the Domme’s dominance and the submissive’s obedience, and it can amplify psychological submission (since experiencing new kinds of pleasure often involves confronting taboos). Medical sources note that the prostate is rich in nerve endings – comparable in sensitivity to a penis head – and massaging it can indeed produce very intense orgasms masterclass.commenshealth.com. In short, training for prostate-only orgasms is popular in Femdom because it subverts and expands normal male sexuality. The submissive learns that he must obey and that his only release comes through methods the Domme controls.

masterclass.com “Manually massaging the prostate gland… can help [a man] reach a powerful prostate orgasm, which can feel more intense than penile orgasms.” (MasterClass)

Psychological and Power-Exchange Motivations

Female Dominants employ prostate training not only for physical reasons but to reinforce a rich power dynamic. Key motivations include obedience, feminization, cuckold humiliation, and “cock addiction.” Each motive drives a different fetish angle:

• Obedience and Control: Forcing a man to endure long periods of chastity and to orgasm only via prostate (usually at the Domme’s command) tests and proves his obedience. He must follow strict rules (e.g. “no touching,” “30 days locked”) to get any relief. This humiliation of dependence intensifies the power exchange. Indeed, psychologists note that “men seek out dominatrices and gladly pay hefty sums for the opportunity to be sexually humiliated”psychologytoday.com. By withholding the penis completely, the Domme controls the submissive’s arousal at every moment.
• Feminization and Sissification: Prostate training often goes hand-in-hand with feminization. Forcing a man to orgasm anally and follow “sissy” protocols (dressing in feminine clothing, using makeup, adopting submissive mannerisms) underscores the reversal of gender roles. As Wikipedia explains, “feminization … also known as sissification, is a practice … in D/s subcultures, involving reversal of gender roles and making a submissive male take on a feminine role” en.wikipedia.org. This deepens psychological submission – the man not only relinquishes his cock to a cage, he also takes on a female identity in speech and dress. (It’s not uncommon for Dommes to require “slave names,” makeup, and skirts as part of training.)
• Cuckold Humiliation: Many Femdom scenarios include cuckolding: the submissive watches the Domme have sex with other men. This is one of the most intense forms of humiliation. Studies and therapists note that some submissive men invite such scenarios and get aroused by their partner’s sex with a “real man”psychologytoday.com. As one psychotherapist observes, “some male cuckolds actively solicit men to have sex with their wives and enjoy watching the action” psychologytoday.com. The Domme might instruct the submissive to clean up after a session, or to kneel quietly and obey as she fucks another man, making him doubly frustrated: no penis of his own and powerless to stop her. This solidifies the Domme’s control and the submissive’s emasculation.
• Cock Addiction and Withdrawal: Many submissives develop a type of “cock addiction”: their entire sexual focus is on having their penis. By placing him in chastity and ignoring his cock, the Domme forces withdrawal. The cock becomes like an aching, forbidden object. Psychology Today explains that male masochism can involve punishing one’s own penis-driven urges and using humiliation as “victory through defeat” psychologytoday.com. As the submissive’s frustration grows, so does his emotional dependency on the Domme to release it through the prostate-only route she permits. Every time he approaches orgasm, he may be reminded that “this” (his cock) is under lock, reinforcing his helplessness.
• (Forced) Bisexual Conditioning: Some advanced Femdom fantasies include forced bi scenarios. For example, after extensive humiliation, a Domme might use a penis prosthetic, strap-on didlo or another man to teach the submissive that pleasure can come from other sources. It’s important to note this is usually fetish role-play. In reality, real sexual orientation doesn’t “flip” like a switch, but within the scenario the submissive often believes he is being “reprogrammed” into liking men. If the Domme only allows VERY infrequent ejaculations, e.g.; twice per month while being penetrated orally and anally he will quickly begin to crave cock. The Domme might say, “You will only be happy when he fucks your pussy ass while I watch,” combining cuckold and forced-bi humiliation. This complete surrender of male privilege can have a powerful psychological impact, even if it’s just in the mind of the role-player. This technique is used by skilled Dommes to mold their submissive's sexuality as much as possible.

psychologytoday.com “Men seek out dominatrices and gladly pay hefty sums for the opportunity to be sexually humiliated… Some male cuckolds actively solicit men to have sex with their wives and enjoy watching the action.”(Psychology Today)

Physiology: Are Prostate-Only Orgasms Possible?

Yes – credible sources confirm prostate-only orgasms are real and often intense. While science on this topic is still evolving, sex educators and health writers agree that many men can orgasm via prostate stimulation alone.

• Sexual Health Experts: Health sites like MasterClass and Healthline explain how prostate stimulation works and confirm its potency. MasterClass notes that a prostate orgasm can feel more intense than a penile one masterclass.com. The men’s sexual health site Ro (2022) states “some men can reach prostate-induced orgasms through prostate stimulation”ro.co, though it cautions that clinical research is limited. Healthline describes a prostate orgasm as “often reported as an intense full-body orgasm”healthline.com. These sources emphasize that with time and practice (sometimes 20-30 minutes or more of stimulation), a man can indeed ejaculate or experience climaxes using only prostate/massage techniques.
• Scientific Commentary: Recent research highlights this. A 2017 Men’s Health report summarizes a study by Dr. Roy Levin, noting “The male prostate orgasm is real” and researchers are just beginning to study it menshealth.com. Levin suggests that learning to orgasm via prostate “rewires the brain” to experience sex differently menshealth.com. A sex educator quoted there, Dr. Susan Milstein, confirms the prostate has nearly as many nerve endings as the clitoris, opening “a whole new avenue of pleasure” when stimulated menshealth.com.
• First-Person Descriptions: Accounts from men who have experienced prostate orgasms underscore that they can indeed happen without penis involvement. One man described a prostate orgasm as “the beginning of an orgasm, but lasting for 20 minutes” vice.com. Another said it felt like “someone put a marble in a stuffed animal, and you love that stuffed animal”vice.com – a steady, localized sensation instead of a sharp peak. Importantly, many report that prostate orgasms feel different – more diffuse and sustained – confirming medical commentary that they involve deeper pelvic muscle contractions and full-body waves verywellhealth.comvice.com.

menshealth.comvice.com Expert consensus and personal reports agree: a man can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone. One writer notes that when stimulated properly, the prostate can produce “one of the peak physical experiences a male can have” menshealth.comvice.com.

Training Regimen: Step-by-Step Techniques

A successful training program is gradual and structured. The Domme should introduce new activities step by step, always reinforcing control, obedience, and comfort/safety. Below is a suggested regimen:

1. Chastity Enforcement: Begin with a properly fitted male chastity device. The submissive’s penis is locked away, so he cannot stimulate it. Initially, the Domme may allow limited wear (hours at a time) to let him acclimate, then gradually extend to days and night-wear. Use a secure device and always keep the emergency key accessible (frozen in ice or kept on a keychain) thecage.co. Emphasize that breaking chastity = punishment. The Domme can test obedience by asking the submissive to sit, kneel, or sleep with the key visibly near but forbidding him from using it unless explicitly allowed. Thecage.co warns that “you need to have the key well-within reach… during the first couple of weeks” thecage.co to prevent injury, since chastity devices can cause issues if not removed during conflicts or hygiene emergencies. Over weeks, increase duration: 24/7 wear, with only pre-approved “unlock sessions” for orgasms.
2. Anal Plug Conditioning: Introduce anal plugs early to acclimate his body to being stretched and stimulated. Start with a very small, smooth silicone plug (2–3 inches insertable) and plenty of lubricant menshealth.com. Insert it gently and have him practice breathing or Kegel exercises. Keep the plug in for short periods (15–30 minutes) and remove if any pain. After a few days, upgrade to a medium plug or butt plug training kit (the kind with several sizes) menshealth.com. Always choose a plug with a flared base to prevent it from getting lost menshealth.com. Over time, he should be comfortable wearing progressively larger plugs, even during daily activities or while performing chores as directed by the Domme. This conditions his anus to tolerate penetration and prepares the prostate for orgasmic stimulation. Men’s Health advises flared-base plugs and a gradual size increase for safe training menshealth.commenshealth.com.Figure: Example butt-plug training kit with progressively larger silicone plugs. (Men’s Health) menshealth.commenshealth.com.
3. Edging and Orgasm Control: While still in chastity or with only plug training, have the submissive practice edging – bringing himself near orgasm (using his plug or nipples) then stopping before release. The Domme might stroke his inner thighs or whisper dirty commands to arouse him, then tell him to stop before orgasm. This builds denial and orgasm control. Over time, shorten the edging intervals or increase the tease intensity. He learns that the Domme alone decides if/when he may climax. Edging can be done through prostate massage with fingers or toy as well (see next step).
4. Prostate Massage and “Milking”: Once the submissive is relaxed and responsive with plugs, the Domme or a trusted partner can begin prostate stimulation. This may start externally (massaging the perineum, the area between balls and anus) and quickly progress internally with fingers or a slim prostate toy. Always use ample lube and take it slow verywellhealth.com. Have him lie on his side or chest-knees; insert a finger or toy aimed at the belly button. The Domme can talk him through deep breathing and relaxation. Initially, stimulation may not yield orgasm — that’s normal. Instead, she may bring him to a gentle cum using both the prostate and (briefly) his penis, showing him the mixing of sensations.
5. Prostate “Milking” Technique: Once partial cooperation is achieved, the Domme can practice milking: maintaining continuous prostate massage while slowly stroking or squeezing the submissive’s locked penis (if in a keyholder arrangement) without allowing ejaculation healthline.com. Over time, focus shifts: he may orgasm solely from prostate stimulation while his cock remains rock-hard but locked. Encourage him to fully let go during prostate massage. One experienced practitioner described a true prostate orgasm as having “no plateau” and letting one “completely let yourself go”community.aneros.com. The Domme can whisper encouragement, even humiliating praise, as he approaches orgasm, reinforcing obedience: e.g. “Now beg to cum on my plug, you filthy slut.” The result is often a deep, shaking orgasm that leaves him drained and humbled.
6. Pegging and Strap-on Play: An advanced step is pegging – the Domme penetrates the submissive with a strap-on dildo or another adult toy. This can be part of “forced bi” training or simply advanced prostate play. Before trying full pegging, ensure the submissive is comfortable with butt plugs and prostate massage. During pegging, the Domme controls the thrusting pace and depth, sometimes combining it with the submissive masturbating or licking her pussy (cock-addict style: worship her body with his mouth while he is penetrated). Pegging often cums with an intense prostate orgasm as a byproduct. If the submissive struggles to cum from internal stimulation alone, the Domme can order him to stroke his locked penis in rhythm with pegging, then suddenly yank the harness out to make him desperation-edge and explode.
7. Verbal Conditioning and Rituals: Throughout training, the Domme uses language and ritual to reinforce conditioning. For example:
   • Humiliating Titles: Call the submissive a derogatory or feminized name when he’s aroused (e.g. “sissy boy,” “cock-sleeve”). This links shame to his sexual response.
   • Affirmations: Have him repeat lines like “Your cock is locked and only I can make you feel good.”
   • Rewards/Punishments: Praise or reward him when he obeys (extra attention, a treat dinner), and punish small infractions (longer edging, cleaning chores) to underline dominance.
   • Consistent Routine: Make the submissive follow household rules (submit at entry, call her “Mistress”, dress in prescribed attire). Integrate plug-wearing or chastity-checks as part of daily rituals (e.g. kneeling for key inspection before bed).
   • Erotic Tasks: Assign “lesser” sexual tasks that still feed his obsession, like telling him he may lick the Domme’s feet or watch porn of pegging until he is denied. These keep him fixated on her demands.
8. Reinforcement Ceremonies: Include occasional full “sessions” where all elements combine: the submissive in chastity and plug, being humiliated verbally, pegged while edging, etc. For example, a training ritual might be: the submissive kneels blindfolded wearing a collar and plug. The Domme teases him with a vibrator on his perineum, whispers obscene fantasies, then pegs him until he begs. Finally she milks his prostate with her fingers, ordering him to choke or weep at her feet as he orgasms uncontrollably. These immersive ceremonies burn the lessons into his psyche.

Safety Note: Always proceed gradually. Use plenty of lube and gentle techniques verywellhealth.com. Trim nails, wear gloves, and have toys with flared bases for safety verywellhealth.commenshealth.com. Never force penetration beyond comfort, and always stop if sharp pain occurs. Keep an unlocked key handy for emergencies thecage.co.

Example Scenarios

Cuckold Training Session

Setup: The submissive is chaste and goggled, on his knees with a butt plug. The Domme invites her “cuckold lover” (another man) to the apartment. The submissive is forbidden to touch himself. The Domme first pegs him briefly to induce desire, then instructs him to strip. She then passionately fucks her lover as the submissive has to pleasure her feet while watching. Every moan he hears increases his desperation. Afterward, the Domme orders him to lick the lover’s cock, then to lie face down. She then slowly finger-milks his prostate, forcing him to cum with a deep prostate orgasm. He cries and thanks her for permission. This scenario cements his humiliation (cuckold) and reaffirms he only orgasms through her orchestration.

Forced-Bi Instruction

Setup: After weeks of worshipping his Domme and using only her toys, the submissive is ready. She states bluntly, “Tonight you will take him in your ass.” A muscular male friend enters. The submissive, locked and plugged, must first kiss and beg the friend at the Domme’s heels, reaffirming he belongs to her. Then the Domme guides the friend to peg the submissive. He resists at first, but she uses edge play and humiliation (“Yes, sissy, man up for me”) until he relaxes. After a thorough pegging, they switch: the submissive must assume doggy position and accept the friend’s penis into his anus while praising it. All the while, the Domme strokes her submissive’s shoulders or cuppa face. Eventually the Domme directs the submissive to orgasm via prostate stimulation during this ordeal. Afterward he washes their feet as penance. This full forced-bi scenario is a powerful confirmation that only the Domme’s commands lead to release, no matter the partner’s gender.

Getting Her sissy used to fluffing the cock that will penetrate him

Sissification Routine

Setup: The Domme decides it’s time for full feminization. She assigns the submissive a female persona (e.g. “Cindy”). He must put on a wig, makeup, and her lingerie – all items she chose. She then performs a ritual: locking his penis, inserting a vibrating plug, and ordering him to dance or pose for her. Using a high-pitched “femmy” voice, he reads erotic monologues. When he becomes aroused, she feminizes his pleasure, saying “See how easy it is for you to cum as a pretty girl?” Finally she uses a strap-on on him while calling him “good girl,” bringing him to a peak. Over time these rituals and the humiliation of “being a girl” train his psyche to crave approval in that role. Feminization is both a method of control and a psychology of submission.

Testimonials and Experiences

First-hand accounts (from forums and articles) illustrate the effect of prostate training:

• A male forum user who’d practiced 7+ years of prostate play confessed: “The prostate-orgasm, induced by prostate play only, has no plateau and can bring you higher and higher… you can completely let yourself go”community.aneros.com. He contrasts this with forced holding-back when penile stimulation is involved. His frustration until hitting a true P-spot climax shows how powerful (yet elusive) the prostate orgasm is.
• In Vice.com interviews, men gave vivid descriptions: One said prostate stimulation felt like “someone put a marble in a stuffed animal” – a slow, deep pleasurevice.com. Another noted first prostate orgasms feel like the start of an orgasm that “lasts for 20 minutes” vice.com. These metaphors highlight the difference from a quick penis orgasm.
• Sexual health experts also testify: Sexual educator Susan Milstein confirms that with prostate play “it really can open up a whole new avenue of pleasure for men if they are willing to try it” menshealth.com. This echoes many submissives’ experience that once the plateau is broken, orgasms become longer-lasting and more intense than ever.
• Psychological change: One therapist observes that devoted submissives undergoing such training often report a sense of relief in surrender. BDSM research shows reduced anxiety and increased well-being in people practicing power exchange verywellmind.com. Many submissives say they find clarity in submitting – a paradoxical but common result of deep trust. As Dr. Anami explains, conscious BDSM can be “a powerful experience… ultimately bringing [partners] closer together”verywellmind.com.

Advanced Practices & Long-term Changes

As training progresses, practices often evolve:

• 24/7 Chastity: By month 2–3, dedicated slaves may wear a cage continuously. A chastity guide stresses that this is a lifestyle commitment. It emphasizes risks (poor fit or hygiene can cause injury) and repeated warnings: “Risk Aware Kink” thecage.co. Advanced holders may only be unlocked for mandated orgasm sessions or medical breaks. Over time, the submissive may even sleep in chastity and wear plugs daily, reshaping his life around pleasing the Domme and respecting her rituals.
• Behavioral Conditioning: The Domme may introduce dress codes (e.g. panties over the cage, heel-wearing), voice training (pleasant or girly tone), and manners training (always be polite to her, not speak unless spoken to). She might have him do maid chores as “punishment,” reinforcing his new identity as her “little slut” or “sissy”. These lasting changes in everyday behavior deepen the internal transformation.
• Orgasm Shift: Over many months, the submissive’s sexual gratification shifts entirely. He may learn to masturbate with plugs and prostate stimulation, sometimes even ejaculating in short bursts while his penis stays locked. Many report that the “pearl” of orgasm travels upward – no longer felt in the penis at all. Some advanced slaves say their cum “leaks out” after release or comes as a thin prostatic fluid during prostate milking healthline.com.
• Emotional Bond: For the Domme, observing these changes – the submissive obeying without hesitation, calling her Mistress without prompting, ending every session with gratitude – reinforces her authority and confidence. For the slave, surrender brings unusual psychological benefits: a noted study found BDSM participants often feel more secure, open to experience, and less anxious than average verywellmind.com. Submissives frequently report a release from stress and decision fatigue when their Domme takes charge of everything, which echoes research that power-exchange can “reduce stress and build trust”verywellmind.comverywellmind.com.

Anal Health, Hygiene, and Safety

Health and hygiene are critical throughout this journey. Key guidelines (from medical and sex-health sources) include:

• Cleanliness: Trim and file fingernails; wash hands thoroughly verywellhealth.com. Anal hygiene (a light douche before play) is recommended to avoid introducing bacteriaverywellhealth.com. Use latex gloves or finger cots for prostate massage if possible.
• Lubrication: Always use plenty of water- or silicone-based lube (no oil or saliva) for any anal penetration verywellhealth.com. Reapply generously. Lubricant prevents tears and makes plug insertion comfortable.
• Slow Progression: Never rush or force. If your submissive tenses or feels pain, stop immediately. Start with very small toys and work up in size gradually menshealth.com. Allow minutes between insertions for his body to relax. Instructional guides caution that forcing anal play without preparation can cause serious injury.
• Flared Bases: Only use toys with flared bases or retrieval cords. Never use anything small enough to be fully swallowed by the rectum menshealth.com. Men’s Health emphasizes a flared base for safety menshealth.com.
• Chastity Risks: Be aware that locking the penis for too long can cause chafing, swelling, or (rarely) more serious circulation problems. Thecage.co stresses always having an emergency key “within easy access,” even if the submissive’s key is held by the Dommethecage.co. Check the cage daily for discomfort. If anything is red or swollen, remove immediately.
• Aftercare: After intense sessions, give the submissive time to recover. Apply balm to any irritated areas. Continue open communication about any numbness or ongoing pain. Book a medical check-up if there are concerns about prostate health or persistent issues. Safe practice is paramount.

verywellhealth.commenshealth.com Anal safety: Trim nails, wash hands, and use generous lubricant verywellhealth.com. Use only body-safe silicone or glass toys with flared bases menshealth.com. Proceed very gradually to avoid injury.

Conclusion

Training a male submissive to achieve anal (prostate) orgasms is a complex but rewarding Femdom journey. It deepens the power exchange: the Domme holds complete control over the slave’s pleasure, obedience, and even identity. When done safely and consensually, prostate-centric training can yield intense physical orgasms and profound psychological transformation for both partners. As many participants note, relinquishing normal sexual control can oddly increase trust and well-being erywellmind.com, strengthening the Domme–slave bond.

Important: Always emphasize consent and care. Use safe words, respect limits, and stay attuned to the submissive’s comfort. With patience, consistency, and the techniques outlined here (chastity, edging, plug training, pegging, etc.), a Domme can guide her slave to mind-blowing prostate orgasms — and to a blissfully obedient, feminized state of surrender.

Sources: Authoritative sex and health publications, psychological analyses of BDSM, and firsthand accounts form the basis of this manual masterclass.compsychologytoday.commenshealth.comcommunity.aneros.commenshealth.comverywellmind.com. These underscore the reality of prostate orgasms and the psychological dynamics of Domme/sub play.

To see how female dominants train their males see the following clips:

Strapadictomy (HD 1080P MP4) Miss Vega and Queen Sirena team up to emasculate and dominate a slave, training it to crave cock in both holes. The session involves intense pegging, oral worship, and humiliation, culminating in the slave being left exhausted and gaping. The Dommes promise even larger cocks for the next session. Watch here

Strapadictomy (HD 1080P MP4) Miss Vega and Queen Sirena team up to emasculate and dominate a slave, training it to crave cock in both holes. The session involves intense pegging, oral worship, and humiliation, culminating in the slave being left exhausted and gaping. The Dommes promise even larger cocks for the next session. Watch here

Strapadictomy (HD 1080P MP4) Miss Vega and Queen Sirena team up to emasculate and dominate a slave, training it to crave cock in both holes. The session involves intense pegging, oral worship, and humiliation, culminating in the slave being left exhausted and gaping. The Dommes promise even larger cocks for the next session. Watch here

Spit Roasted Sissy Bitch (HD 1080P MP4) Queen Violet Viper and Miss Olivia Serpente punish a captured sexual predator, transforming him into a submissive sissy. The clip features double penetration, forced feminization, and humiliation, including being fed cum and renamed "Barbie." The Dommes leave him gaping and wondering what’s next.Watch here