DominaPlanet Training Series — Pleasure, Power, and Practice

Introduction: The Throne That Moans

Facesitting isn’t a flirtation; it’s a chair made of a person and a ritual built of nerve endings. When a Domme sits, she rules; when she sits on him, she rules his breath, his mouth, his pace, his worship, and—if she chooses—his hope of release. Most real-world facesitting among Female Owners isn’t feather-light. It’s full-weight, orgasm-driven queeningwith the Domme facing the sub’s feet so her clitoris is squarely over his tongue and she can ride until she’s finished—once, twice, or until he’s drenched and shaking. Often the slave is locked in chastity. He swallows mouthful after mouthful, lets it run into ears and hair and down the sides of his neck, and keeps serving.

This manual is written for both sides of the throne. It’s a technique guide for Dommes who want repeatable, body-safe orgasmic facesitting (not just “cute queening”), and it’s a training syllabus for submissives who want to become solid, reliable, mindless furniture with a skilled tongue. You’ll get positions, weight distribution, tongue control (verbal and non-verbal steering), long-duration protocols (30–180 minutes), menstrual use, chastity integration, humiliation variants, cuckold tie-ins, psychology, and safety that respects real anatomy. Use the pieces as modules; build your program into a daily ritual; make it a lifestyle, not a stunt.

What Facesitting Really Is (and Isn’t)

• It’s not “gentle by default.” In most FLR/Femdom households that use it for pleasure, the Domme uses her full body weight and controls the angle to force the service she wants.
• It’s not only oral sex. It’s objectification, discipline, and ritual with oral service inside it. He is a surface, not a “partner.”
• It’s not improvisation forever. The best facesitting is trained: predictable, stable, repeatable. You can make the slave into a reliable throne that works every time.

Core Styles (with the Domme Facing the Sub’s Feet as the Pleasure Default)

1. Orgasmic Queening (Default Pleasure Style).
   Orientation: Domme facing the sub’s feet.
   Goal: Her orgasm(s).
   Method: Full-weight straddle; angle adjusted to put her clitoris exactly where she wants it; non-verbal hip cues steer tongue behavior. This is the standard for extended sessions—30 to 120 minutes or more—where she grinds, rocks, and bears down until satisfied.
2. Sensual/Intimate Queening (Gentler Variant).
   Same orientation but partial weight on thighs, less smother, more teasing. Useful as warm-up, aftercare, or to coach new subs.
3. Smother/Discipline (High-Control Variant).
   Orientation can be facing feet or facing head. Focus on immobilization and obedience; breath is rationed by micro-lifts or thigh-angle. Use responsibly with clear signals and intervals; never “wing it.”
4. Humiliation & Ignorance Play.
   She sits, scrolls, reads, eats, or does makeup. He’s furniture. If she wants pleasure, she takes it without acknowledging him; if not, he’s a cushion and nothing more.
5. Menstrual Facesitting (Ritual & Taboo).
   The Domme uses the slave’s mouth during her period—because she wants to, not as a “test.” Some Owners announce it: “I’m looking forward to using your tongue as my tampon.” Make it a ceremony; it’s a potent bond and a clean expression of Female authority and comfort.
6. Cuckold/Forced-Bi Tie-Ins.
   The throne serves while she performs for or with others; or the throne warms up her orgasms before she rides the bull; or the throne must “clean” afterwards. He remains locked. The point is dependency and spectacle.

Anatomy of Pleasure-First Facesitting (Domme’s Manual)

Baseline Setup

• Environment: Bed with firm pillows, or a low sturdy bench. A shoulder wedge for the sub opens the throat and brings the mouth higher.
• Sub Position: Flat on back, shoulders elevated; arms at sides or cuffed under him; legs straight or spread slightly.
• Domme Mount: Approach from his chest, turn to face his feet, straddle, and settle your sit bones over his cheeks so your clitoris aligns with the top of his tongue.
• Chastity: If you use it (recommended), lock before the session. He’s here to serve, not to negotiate.

Weight Distribution for Control

• Full-Weight Seat (default for orgasms). Place 80–100% of your weight on him. You’ll feel the cheekbones and jaw create a stable saddle. Full weight pins him so he cannot rise; it also turns his jaw into a wide, flat platform—perfect for pressure and long grinding strokes.
• Micro-Shifts = Commands.
  • Lean forward (toward his feet): forces clitoral contact. Tongue should be flat, long, steady.
  • Sit upright (hips centered): pins jaw open and opens the vestibule for deep tongue penetration.
  • Rock left/right: signals circling around the clitoris or inner labia.
  • Drop deeper (mini-squat): “harder, faster, less air for him—do not stop.”
• Thigh Gates: Squeeze your thighs to narrow his tongue’s range; spread to allow broader licks.

Non-Verbal Tongue Control

Train him to read your hips so you rarely need words:

• Forward press = clit focus (tongue flat, broad strokes; occasional tip flicks on your command).
• Vertical drop = tongue inside (pointed, steady thrusts as you bear down).
• Side rock = orbit (wide circles, no slipping off the target).
• Quick grind pulses = “keep pace with me” (he matches your rhythm; he does not set it).

Add short verbal tags only when needed: “Flat. Flick. Inside. Don’t chase.” Correct with a hair grab, cheek slap, or a firm grind if he drifts.

Building to Long Durations (30–180 minutes)

1. Phase A: Foundations (10–20 minutes).
   Teach stillness, hip-cue literacy, and the three tongues (flat/flick/inside). Keep it frequent (daily or every other day).
2. Phase B: Threshold (30–60 minutes).
   Introduce orgasm sets. Example protocol: “Three orgasms minimum; you don’t stop between.”
3. Phase C: Endurance (60–120 minutes).
   Add micro-breaks you control: 10–20 seconds of partial lift every 10–15 minutes to let him clear his nose, then drop back down without warning.
4. Phase D: Marathon (120–180 minutes).
   Use a queening stool or shoulder wedge for your comfort; cuff his wrists/ankles so he can’t “help himself.” Alternate clit sets and deep-tongue sets. Hydrate between orgasms; you decide when the session ends, not your legs.

Menstrual Protocol (Ritualized)

• Frame it plainly: “You will serve me throughout my cycle. Your tongue replaces cotton.”
• Liner choices: None if you want direct flow; or thin panties for smearing; or an external pad pressed into his mouth first, then removed so he “finishes” directly.
• Tone: Not a dare. A domestic norm. He thanks you afterwards, cleans your thighs, changes bedding, resumes position if ordered.

The Submissive’s Training Syllabus

Body as Furniture, Mouth as Instrument

Your job is twofold: be a chair and be a tongue. Chairs don’t wiggle. Instruments respond instantly to touch.

Posture & Stillness

• Shoulders Up: Use a wedge or two stacked pillows under shoulder blades; it brings your mouth to the correct height and reduces neck strain.
• Hands Invisible: Palms down under your hips or cuffed; you don’t “assist.”
• Jaw “On”: Relax the hinge, not the platform. Keep your mouth wide enough that her weight can seal you when she drops.

Three Tongues (Practice Daily)

• Flat Tongue: Heavy, broad, steady pressure for clitoral grinding. Imagine you’re the leather of a saddle—smooth and reliable.
• Tip Flick: Small, fast, elastic flicks on the clitoral glans. This is precision work; do it only when she leans forwardor orders it.
• Inside (Penetration): Point, extend, and hold steady while she sits upright and bears down. No darting—be a pegshe rides on.

Breathing & Composure

• Breathe through your nose when you can. If sealed, exhale fully, wait calmly. Trusted Dommes will give micro-air on their schedule.
• Don’t panic. Panic makes you buck. Bucking makes her grind harder—or end the privilege. Train calmness.
• Signal plan: If your dynamic uses safety signals during silent play, agree on a hand tap or finger wiggle she can feel on her thigh. Otherwise, your “signal” is staying composed until she lifts.

Endurance Conditioning (A Daily Plan)

• Week 1–2: 10 minutes/day, no orgasm goal. Learn cues.
• Week 3–4: 20–30 minutes/day. She chooses one orgasm; you hold still before/after.
• Week 5–6: 45–60 minutes. Chastity mandatory. Fluids run where they will; you swallow without gagging or flinching.
• Week 7–8+: 60–120+ minutes. She sets orgasm count or time. You become silent furniture with a skilled tongue.

Advanced Domme Tactics: Steering Pleasure with Weight and Angle

The “Two-Gear” Method (Clit Gear, Deep Gear)

• Gear 1—Clit: Face his feet, lean forward, clamp thighs, grind small circles. Call for flat tongue unless you order flicks. Use quick pulses to push yourself over.
• Gear 2—Deep: Sit upright, widen your knees, drop your center of gravity so your vulva seals his mouth. Rock slow and heavy. His tongue penetrates; your hips choose depth and rhythm.

Transitions: Don’t warn him. Your hips are the command. When you shift from Gear 1 to Gear 2, he must switch tongues instantly.

The “Throttle” (Pressure as Language)

• Idle: 30–40% weight (rare in pleasure sessions).
• Cruise: 70–80% weight—what most Dommes call “sitting.”
• Redline: 90–100% weight—pinning, smothering, no escape. This is where many orgasms actually happen.

The “Ignore” Protocol (Humiliation + Endurance)

Decide in advance that a portion of the session you won’t acknowledge him at all. You will text, sip wine, write emails, or watch a show while staying seated. If you want an orgasm mid-episode, you grind to it and continue watching. He is a cushion. Teach him that silence is praise.

Scenario Library (Pleasure-First, Facing Feet)

Scenario 1: The Daily Throne (60–90 minutes)

• Frame: After work, shoes off, you mount him facing his feet.
• Flow: 10 minutes of warm-up (flat tongue only) → 15 minutes of clit work → short micro-air → 15 minutes deep tongue → micro-air → 20 minutes freestyle until first orgasm → you rest seated on his mouth while scrolling → repeat as you wish.
• Rules: He stays locked. He swallows everything. He does not speak.
• Close: You stand; he remains still until you tell him to clean you and the bedding. Kiss? Optional. Gratitude from him? Mandatory.

Scenario 2: The Alarm Clock (15–30 minutes)

• Frame: Morning. He wakes before you, wedges the pillows, slides under, and becomes your alarm.
• Flow: You ride his tongue to a quick, decisive orgasm, then sit and check your messages on his face for the remaining time.
• Rule: No words until you say “Good morning.”

Scenario 3: Period Service (45–60 minutes)

• Frame: You announce the week’s ritual.
• Flow: Mount facing feet; let flow/smear happen naturally. If using an external pad, press it into his mouth first; remove; finish directly.
• Tone: Domestic routine, not spectacle. He should maintain perfect composure. Any flinch earns extra time.

Scenario 4: Triple-Climax Protocol (90–120 minutes)

• Frame: “Three tonight.”
• Flow: Orgasm 1 (clit gear) → sit and breathe on his mouth 5–10 minutes → Orgasm 2 (deep gear) → ignore protocol 10 minutes → Orgasm 3 (your choice).
• Rule: He doesn’t move between sets. You do not dismount; his face is your seat the entire time.

Scenario 5: Trophy and Throne (Cuckold Tie-In, 60–90 minutes)

• Frame: The throne warms you up, gets you off, and remains under you while you ride someone else.
• Flow: You take one orgasm on his mouth; the bull arrives; you shift to the bull with the throne still beneath supporting your thigh/foot; later you return to the throne to finish.
• Rule: The throne stays locked, silent, grateful.

Humiliation & Language (Domme’s Toolbelt)

• Declaratives: “You’re furniture.” “You exist to hold and serve.” “I don’t need your air; I need your tongue.”
• Operational Commands: “Flat.” “Inside.” “Circle.” “Don’t chase.” “Hold.”
• Ownership: “My seat.” “My cushion.” “My coffee table if I want.”
• Menstrual: “I’m using your tongue as my tampon.” (State it as policy, not a dare.)
• Chastity reinforcement: “Your cock is irrelevant. My clit is the only thing that decides your day.”

Keep lines short and cold during the act. Save long monologues for warm-up or aftercare so you don’t interrupt rhythm.

Breath, Safety, Responsibility

Facesitting done the way most Dommes actually do it—full weight, long duration—demands competence and care. Pleasure and power don’t need recklessness.

Positioning & Airflow

• Facing-feet orientation is ideal for clitoral access. For airflow, your micro-lift can be a simple hip hinge—tilt forward for one nostril, then drop again.
• Use a shoulder wedge for him; it angles the face so one nostril often stays at the edge of your thigh crease during clit focus.
• If you want to reduce air without total seal, pivot a knee to cover his cheek and leave a small side channel.

Intervals & Micro-Breaks

• In long sessions (60–180 minutes), build an internal clock: every 10–15 minutes, do a 10–20 second partial lift or hip shift. You choose the timing—never on a predictable count he can anticipate.

Signals (If Your Dynamic Uses Them)

• Agree on a two-tap on your thigh = immediate 1–2 second lift.
• For high-protocol silence, you can remove signals entirely; if so, compensate with micro-lifts on your schedule and read his body (stiff bucking = not devotion; it’s distress).

Jaw/Neck Care

• Shoulder wedge and rolled towel under the neck help with alignment.
• In marathons, add 10-second jaw rests (keep your seat, but allow him to close and reopen twice) every 20–30 minutes—your call, not his request.

Hygiene & Skin

• Before: rinse, optional shave; after: you decide—wipe or “wear it.”
• Menstrual use: set towels; wash after; treat it as normal housekeeping in a female-led home.

Psychology: What the Throne Does to People

For the Domme: It’s comfort, climax, and visible proof of hierarchy. The chair is a person who can’t leave until you’re done. That is power you can feel in your bones.

For the Sub: It’s obliteration of ego. The brain learns that service is happiness, that stillness is devotion, that fluids are gifts. Extended facesitting creates trance; the world narrows to pressure, heat, taste, and the drum of her hips. Chastity compounds the obsession—his arousal has no outlet except pleasing her until she decides he’s done.

For the Relationship: It becomes culture. Evening throne time, morning alarm, Sunday marathon, period week protocol. The home develops female gravity: everything settles where she sits.

Troubleshooting (Real Problems, Real Fixes)

• “His tongue loses track of my clit.”
  Use flat-tongue only for 5 minutes. Keep your clit centered by pinning his chin between your thighs; then add 30-second flick sprints on command. If he chases, grind down and hold still—force him to stay under the target.
• “He keeps trying to ‘help’ with his hands.”
  Tie them or tuck them; if he moves, sit harder. Repeat until he internalizes that stillness is his only job.
• “He panics when sealed.”
  Train in layers: 3–5 second seals with clear micro-lifts; grow to 10–12 seconds. Make exhale drills: he exhales fully, you seal, count 5, lift, repeat. Remove counting later.
• “My thighs burn before I climax.”
  Use a queening stool or bed frame edge to offload a little leg work without reducing face pressure. Or switch to upright (deep gear) for 2–3 minutes to rest quads, then return to forward clit gear.
• “He gags on menstrual flow.”
  Normalize it. Start with panties/liner for smearing, then remove. Shorten the first period session to 10–15 minutes; extend as composure improves. Praise composure, not enthusiasm.
• “He gets lightheaded after long sessions.”
  That’s common. Transition slowly: remain seated while his breathing normalizes; then dismount; keep him flat 1–2 minutes; sit him up in stages; water; aftercare.

Ritualizing Facesitting (Make It Your Household Religion)

Daily Throne: 30–60 minutes after dinner. He sets the wedge, kneels to invite you to sit, says nothing more. You ride to one orgasm minimum; decide whether to ignore him or talk. He cleans and thanks you.

Punishment Throne: When he breaks rules, he becomes a seat—no oral—for a fixed period while you watch TV/read. Afterwards, optional: 2–5 minutes of hard grinding as lesson.

Period Week Litany: Simple line every day: “I will serve your comfort, your blood, and your pleasure without complaint.” Then he proves it with his mouth.

Cuckold Court: Throne warms you up; bull finishes you; throne cools you down. No words to the throne all night—only your weight.

Chastity Sunday: He’s locked at dawn. You schedule two throne marathons (morning and night). Between them he does housework with dried stains on his cheeks. He sleeps collared at the foot of your bed.

Example Training Week (Orgasm-Focused)

• Mon: 30 minutes, clit gear + one orgasm.
• Tue: 45 minutes, deep gear intervals + one orgasm; “ignore” protocol for 10 minutes.
• Wed: 60 minutes, two orgasms, chastity check.
• Thu: 30 minutes, menstrual if applicable; no speaking.
• Fri: 75 minutes, three orgasms; cuckold tie-in if desired.
• Sat: 90 minutes, mixed gears, ritual aftercare (massage for you, cleanup by him).
• Sun: 120 minutes, marathon; he remains under you between climaxes as you scroll, snack, plan the week from your throne.

Aftercare (Yes, Even When He’s Furniture)

• You: Water, wipe, robe. Decide whether you want cuddles or distance.
• Him: Stay down while your pulse settles; then sit him up slowly. Praise or cold indifference—both are tools. If he served through period or marathon, a brief pat or “Good seat” imprints the bond.
• Housekeeping: He launders, remakes the bed, cleans your thighs if you want, sets the wedge for tomorrow.

Closing: The Chair That Changes Everything

Done at its fullest, facesitting becomes a household law. You don’t ask for oral; you sit for it. You don’t debate his arousal; you decide it. He doesn’t hope for release; he offers his face and learns that his entire erotic identity is the surface you use. The default orientation for real pleasure is simple and reliable: you face his feet so your clitoris is exactly where you want it, and you ride with your full weight until you’re satisfied. Add chastity to deepen dependence, ritual to give it spine, humiliation to salt the edges, and composure to keep it sharp. This is not a stunt; it’s a practice. The more you sit, the more the home bends around your body and the more he becomes what he’s kneeling to be—your throne.

Facesitting in Action: Clips That Teach, Crush, and Own

The theory is clear: facesitting is not a flirtation, but a throne. It’s about full weight, relentless control, and the transformation of a submissive into nothing more than a living, breathing piece of furniture. But theory only takes you so far—real mastery comes from watching it in action. The clips below are not just examples; they’re training tools, each demonstrating a different facet of orgasmic queening, breath control, humiliation, and total ownership. These are the clips that show you how it’s done—whether you’re a Domme refining your technique or a submissive learning to become the perfect throne.

Study them. Buy them. Use them to build your own rituals.

1. Pussy Face Saddle - Preview

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Princess Natalie doesn’t just sit—She dominates. This clip is a masterclass in full-weight, orgasm-driven queening, with the Domme facing the sub’s feet for maximum clitoral control. She rides his face like a saddle, grinding Her pussy into his tongue until he’s drowning in Her juices. Three orgasms later, he’s left bound, drenched, and ordered to never wash Her off. This is pleasure-first facesitting at its most brutal and effective—no gentleness, no negotiation, just pure, relentless use.

2. Pussy Face Chair (HD 1080P MP4)

Goddess Obsidian turns breath play into psychological warfare. Her slave is locked into a chair, blindfolded, and forced to serve as Her living throne—his face buried under Her pussy, his air supply cut off at Her whim. She starts with 20 seconds of smothering, then pushes him further: 30, 45, a full minute of his muffled screams vibrating against Her clit. “You’re not even a person anymore,” She sneers, grinding Her full weight onto his face until he’s nothing but a trembling, oxygen-starved mess beneath Her. This is facesitting as objectification and discipline, where the submissive’s only purpose is to suffer and serve.

3. Rectal Reckoning (HD 1080P MP4)

Mistress Lillith doesn’t just smother—She colonizes. This clip is for those who want to explore the humiliation of ass worship and breath control. Her slave’s face is buried in Her anus, his nose shoved inside as She bounces, grinds, and suffocates him. “You liked My ass so much? Now you get to play in it,” She taunts, forcing him to lick, taste, and tongue-fuck Her asshole while She rides his face like a cruel queen. The climax? She sits on his face with Her full weight, his tongue buried deep, and leaves him gasping for air like the worthless worm he is.

4. Smelly Ass Breath (HD 1080P MP4)

Mistress Nova Maverick’s post-workout ass is a weapon of humiliation. Sweaty, unwashed, and filthy, She forces her slave to inhale, lick, and tongue-fuck Her asshole while She whips him into submission. “Treat My asshole as your Mistress,” She orders, riding his face until he’s choking on Her stench. This clip is facesitting as degradation, where the submissive is reduced to nothing more than a living toilet brush—and he loves every second of it.

Why These Clips Matter

These clips aren’t just for entertainment—they’re training tools. They show you real techniques, real weight distribution, and real psychological dominance in action. Whether you’re a Domme looking to refine your queening skills or a submissive learning to become the perfect throne, these clips will teach you how to make facesitting a ritual, not just a stunt.

Watch them. Study them. Then make them your reality. The throne awaits.